When our souls feel safe they exert ones’ will.  The ego is what keeps humans safe.  The ego is trying to stay alive and get rid of everything else.  It shuns the spirit or soul with anger, fear, and frustration, also known as drama.  The drama comes up and it scares us or we are afraid enough and don't have the guts enough to try something.  We then get used to not doing anything and it adds up and then our souls kind of say, hey it’s not worth the effort.  It is beneficial to understand and use the drama, and how do we get to dramas?   This is done in and through relationships.  So use your relationships to learn, to practice, to love and allow the soul to not only be, but to be one.